I want to discuss about one topic.” In some cultures women and men are expected to wait until after they are married to live together.” I agree with this statement. Different countries have different customs about marriage. In some countries people legally can stay together before marriage but in some countries people cannot live together before marriage. According to my culture women and men cannot live together until they get married. I think this is a good decision to live separate before marriage. Marriage is that decision which people have to take very carefully. This is the decision which will make people’s lives better or worse. Before marriage, people have to understand your partner that is very important, but not by living together.
To stay with your partner before marriage that decision makes the life boring after marriage. Your excitement and attraction will finish because that exciting moments you spent before marriage those moments cannot come back. If people want to enjoy your married life you better stay separately before marriage.
This is an interesting topic. I'm facing this issue in my own family because my daughter is probably going to live with her boyfriend next year. I am not strongly against it, but I'm not thrilled about it either. In the United States, this is so common that these days it is unusual when a man and a woman have not lived together before marriage. Remember, on average, people wait until they are older to get married in the U.S. That may have something to do with the increase in living together before marriage.
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